Vancouver, Canada
Cal me Rick. In 1999, I was a a senior at King George Secondary School in Vancouver, a Glee Club geek, pale, skinny, eyeglassed, kind of homely, with a pretty good voice but no social skills. I knew I was gay, but I wasn't out yet.
Then my buddy told me about auditions for minor parts in
Final Destination (2000), starring Devon Sawa (the 21-year old star of
Casper, The Boys Club, Wild America, and
Idle Hands). I figured it would look good on my uni apps, and I had a little crush on Devon, so off I went.
I got the part -- one line and crowd shots, took about an hour -- but somehow Devon noticed me. We went out to lunch, and then to the Aquarium, and before I knew it I was coming out to him -- the first person I told! And that weekend he escorted me to my first gay bar.
We never hooked up -- he said I wasn't his type. But I never forgot the emotional connection and support.
One night he asked me, "Of all the actors in Hollywood, other than me, who would you most like to sleep with?"
Without a blink I said "Jonathan Taylor Thomas."
I watched every episode of
Home Improvement (1991-1999), even though I despised that awful, homophobic Tim Allen, and the "real men" grunting, playing sports, and talking about tools. I had enough of that growing up in Vancouver, thank you. But Jonathan Taylor Thomas (1981-), a teen dream fave rave, an androgynous prettyboy with soulful grey eyes and puckered lips.
How could you help putting his poster on your bedroom wall and kissing it every night?
Even though your parents misinterpreted your interest in
Home Improvement and kept giving you tools for Christmas.
"Jonathan's pretty cool," Devon said. "We've been friends for years. Tell you what -- come visit me in L.A. sometime, and maybe I can arrange a meeting."
When filming ended, he went back to L.A., and I went on to the Victoria Conservatory to study voice, but we stayed in touch.
I finally did visit at Christmastime in 2001, and was disappointed by two things:
1. Devon is straight, or maybe bi. He was dating Danielle Fischel of
Boy Meets World! I did get a date with Ben Savage out of the deail, but that's a story for another time.
2. Jonathan Taylor Thomas had left Hollywood to study philosophy at Harvard, and wasn't in town for a hookup.
The next few years of my life were rough: I flunked out of the Conservatory, broke up with my boyfriend, lost my brother, tried to make it as a singer, and finally went back to uni for my teaching credential. I got my degree in 2008, and became a high school music teacher, first in Hamilton, Ontario and then in Toronto.
Devon and I became "Christmas and Birthday Card" friends. I was invited to his weddings, to Jessica and Dawni, but didn't go. The last time I saw him in person was in Montreal in 2006.
My schoolboy crush on Jonathan Taylor Thomas dimmed a bit when I saw his gay-themed movies,
Speedway Junkie (1999) and
Common Ground (2000), and read his homophobic response to the reporters' standard question: "Does playing a gay character mean that you are gay?"
JTT: "Of course not!!!!! I've played murderers. Does that mean I'm a murderer?"
In his interview with
The Advocate, his response was just as vociferous: "It's a blatant lie."
I didn't see him in any more movies, and assumed that he had left Hollywood for good.
[According to Popsugar, he graduated from Columbia in 2010 and left Hollywood, returning only to direct three episodes (and guest-star in four) of his pal Tim Allen's sitcom,
Last Man Standing (2013-2016). I don't know who the boyfriend is,]
Last summer, I had to go to Los Angeles for a conference, and I emailed my friend Devon to ask him to lunch.
"Lunch, nothing!" he responded. "You're staying with me in Calabasas. That is, if you don't mind a houseful of kids and cats."
Calabasas, California, July 2017
I flew into LAX on Thursday, rented a car, and drove up to Calabasas, in the San Gabriel Valley about an hour's drive away. Nice house, very rustic, with mountains visible in the distance.
Devon was 38 years old, no longer blond, tall and tattooed and craggy -- but we've all gotten older, haven't we?
It was a little awkward at first, like you might imagine with someone you haven't actually seen in a decade, but soon we were talking about Vancouver in the 1990s, and coming out, and it was like old times. Dawni was nice, but kept in the background, mostly running around with the kids, a toddler boy and a babe in arms.
"Are you going to be here Saturday afternoon?" Devon asked. "We can go up into the mountains. And I might have a surprise for you."
I had a couple of presentations to go to at the conference, but I promised I would be.
When I arrived on Saturday afternoon, Jonathan Taylor Thomas was sitting in the living room!
I didn't recognize him at first: he was 36 years old, no longer puppy-dog cute, more scholarly, like that cool philosophy professor who introduced you to existentialism and jazz.
Was Devon setting us up?
I played it cool, not sitting next to him, not gushing, and absolutely not bringing up
Home Improvement. Jonathan was quiet, a bit reserved. Later Devon told me that they hadn't seen each other in about ten years.
After we chatted for awhile, Devon said "Ok, it's pool time. Men only -- no wives, kids, or cats."
Jonathan shook his head. "You're not going to get me that way again! We're not fifteen anymore!"
"Maybe you're not, but I plan to stay fifteen forever!" Devon exclaimed. "Rick, help me with grandpa here."
I didn't know what was going on, but I obliged. We each took one of Jonathan's hands and pulled him through the living room and dining room, and out through the French doors to the pool.
"No!" Jonathan yelled. "You jackass, I've got my smartphone in my pocket, and my wallet! And I don't have a change of clothes!"
Devon laughed. "You heard the man. Get him out of his clothes, and don't be gentle!"
We quickly stripped Jonathan of his shirt, undershirt, shoes, pants, and underwear -- yes, I "accidentally" got a grope -- average size, cut. Then we took him by his hands and feet and threw him into the pool.
"You jerks! I'm going to get you for this!" He hoisted himself out of the pool, naked and gleaming in the sun, his cock bouncing about. Devon tried to run away, but Jonathan grabbed him and pushed them both into the pool.
Soon all three of us were naked, dunking each other, roughhousing like kids. Devon is quite well hung, by the way, a thick 4" soft.
There was no sex -- a bit of casual groping, maybe. I never even found out if Jonathan is gay. But being naked in the pool with my old friend and my childhood crush -- what could be better?