I can ignore almost anything.
But some words and phrases are too grating and asinine to ignore. They make me much less likely to invite you home in the first place, and they ruin the mood once we get there. They're likely to elicit laughter or a groan of disapproval. You'd be better off quoting Monty Python ("My nipples explode with delight), or just giving your vocal cords a rest.
Here are 11 sex words and phrases that will kill the mood:
Oh, aren't you fit!
Physical fitness is a measure of your cardiovascular endurance, muscle strength and endurance, flexibility, agility, and fat-to-muscle ratio, not your physical attractiveness. Saying that someone is fit makes you sound like a leering, groping Creepy Old Guy.
2. Delicious/Mouth Watering.
Your kisses are delicious! Your cock is mouth-watering!
You use your mouth for both eating and sex, but otherwise the two activities are not at all related. Sex has nothing to do with your taste buds; a hamburger can't be sexy, and a person cannot be delicious.
I need a man to breed me.
Breed means encouraging animals to have sex so they will reproduce. It's demeaning when you're talking about human beings, and completely inaccurate when you're talking about anal sex. If you're an anal bottom, just say so.
Oh, fuck me, fuck me.
The word fuck is used for many things besides sexual acts, mostly bad things. It's vulgar, coarse, and low-class. Besides, it's vague. Exactly what act are you proposing? Do you want to be an anal top, an oral bottom? Do you want to do interfemoral? Be specific!
5. Cock sucker/sucking cock
I want you to suck my cock!
Cock sucker is a long-standing derogatory term for gay men. It's demeaning to oral bottom, and completely inaccurate. You only suck at the end of the act. Say "go down on me" instead.
6. It feels good/great
The success of oral sex is dependent on how attractive you find your partner, how erotic you find the situation, how comfortable you are in the room, and a host of other conditions, some seemingly trivial (whether or not you are hungry). "It feels good/great" reduces the act to a pure sensation.
There will be a fag at the party to service you.
Fag is another derogatory term for gay men, implying that that they are objects rather than people, far inferior to heterosexual men. And why would you refer to just one of the gay men at a party as a fag? They're all gay.
I'm a sub into getting whipped and spanked, looking for a dom.
Dom (dominant) and sub (submissive) are terms taken from heterosexual master-slave scenes, infused with the heteronormative depiction of sex as always involving a "boy" and a "girl." It brands you as a newcomer to gay communities: we say top and bottom.
Suck that big cock! Do you like that big cock?
I'm a big fan of extra-large equipment, but it's annoying to be asked "Do you like that big cock?" in the middle of a sexual encounter. Especially when they ask you over and over.
Um...of course I like that big cock. Why else would I be here?
The irony is that guys who ask that are usually average-sized.
Yeah, do that. Yeah...yeah.
In porn, it's guys watching the act who say "yeah...yeah" every thirty seconds. In real life, it's the guy you're having sex with, whether or not you've asked him a question.
I'm gonna cum....
Why bother to announce it? It's usually obvious, unless you're one of those guys who produces no semen, so nothing comes out. And if you do want to announce it, why use that unelegant phrase? Try:
Russian: Ya zankochen (I am finished).
German: Ich spritze (I squirt).
Spanish: Yo rocio (I splatter).
French: Je jouis (I am glad).
See also: 6000 Ways to Say Penis