Friday, December 21, 2018

Ballet Bulges

What else do you go to the ballet for?

The tight-fitting lycra is meant to facilitate the complex leg movements necessary for a ballet performance, but it has an even more interesting function.















Of course, everyone pretends not to notice.
























You're not going to see anything more detailed than a bulge.  Ballet dancers typically wear a "dance belt," a sort of snug jock strap to keep them from flopping around during complicated moves.















But just a bulge is fine.























Ballet dancers must be very athletic, but there are few biceps and pecs on display in most ballets.

If you want biceps and pecs, go to the gym.  The ballet is for bulges.

More after the break.














Sunday, December 16, 2018

Coming Out with John Travolta


Rock Island, June 1978

During the summer of 1978, I figured "it" out.  At the movies.

I didn’t go to movies much when I was a kid. Our church forbade them, and besides, I didn’t get an allowance until junior high.  In 1968, I saw only 3 movies in a theater: Blackbeard’s Ghost, Yours, Mine, and Ours, and Oliver!

But during the summer of 1978, shortly after my senior prom, I was a high school graduate.  I had a job at the Carousel Snack Bar and my own car: money and freedom. And I went to all the movies I could.

During the 10 weeks of summer, from Memorial Day to Labor Day, I saw 21 movies, alone, with my brother, with Aaron and Darry and a boy I liked: Old Marx Brothers comedies at the Film Club, dollar movies at the Augustana Student UnionThe Rocky Horror Picture Show at the Nuart, and lots of blockbusters at the Showcase Cinemas (Animal House, The Cheap Detective, The End, The Eyes of Laura Mars,  Grease, The Greek Tycoon, Seniors....). 

You probably think that Rocky Horror did it.  No, it was Grease.

It's a heterosexist boy-meets-girl fable, drawing on the 1950s craze, and therefore kin to Lords of Flatbush,  Happy Days and Laverne and Shirley): during their senior year at Rydell High in the 1950s (actually 1962), "nice girl" Sandy (Olivia Newton-John) falls for greaser Danny (John Travolta), but he is only interested in girls who "put out." So her friends, the Pink Ladies, give her a tramp-makeover, and Danny is lured in.

But more: it's about masks, surface conformity hiding our true selves. Danny is sweet, sensitive, and caring, but his culture requires a pretense of machismo. When he falls for Sandy, he is forbidden from acknowledging that he is in love; it's supposed to be all about sex.  Sandy, meanwhile, learns to hide her true self under a sleazy, leather-clad, cigarette-smoking facade.

At the time, both were heavily rumored to be gay.  Conforming, wearing a mask.

But girls can only lure, hint at sexual availability.  There are dire consequences for actually giving in, as Rizzo (Stockard Channing) learns (pictured with her boyfriend Kenickie, played by Boomer Conaway of Taxi).


What do the teenagers want, when they are their true selves?  Not sex.  Not romance. They want belonging, an emotional connection.  As the movie ends, the eight friends wonder what will become of them after graduation.  Will they go their separate ways?  "No," Danny exclaims.  "That'll never happen. We'll always be together."

"Grease," performed by Frankie Valli, was constantly on the radio that summer.

"This is a world of illusion, out of control, makes us confused": nothing is real, you have to wear the mask, say things you don't mean, pretend things you don't feel.

 But "The adults are lying -- only real is real"  It's all one big lie.

Over and over, day after day, year after year, they try to make you believe that what you feel doesn't exist, what you want doesn't exist, that no same-sex love has ever happened in all the history of the world.

It's all one big lie. Only real is real.

So: "We stop the fight right now, we got to be what we feel."

That did it.

I didn't actually see the movie that day; the song came during the opening credits.

The adults are lying; only real is real.
We stop the fight right now.  We got to be what we feel.

I'm probably the only person to start sobbing during the opening credits of Grease.

I had to run out of the theater and sit in my car and cry.

The adults are lying; only real is real.
We stop the fight right now.  We got to be what we feel.

Tears of joy, of relief.  Years of lying, years of being lied to, of invisibility, of deathly silence, of assertions that "what you feel does not and cannot exist," all vanished in a moment.  The scales fell away.  I understood everything.

It's been 40 years, but I still tear up thinking about it.

L

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